I’ll Cast My Ballot For The Good Life

Election Day is a big deal for me and not just because I get to vote and wear a sticker all day.  It’s a big deal for me because on election night 2006, I met my wife Nina for the very first time.  I did not know at that time that my life was about to change for the better in every imaginable way.

Before Nina and I met she told me that our get together was not a date and that night she made it clear she had no intention of dating me; we were just two friends from the internet meeting each other to talk (seriously, she mentioned it multiple times…I know, I get it, you don’t like me, I’m a hideous monster).  I told her that I was fine with that and advised her that I would quietly and respectfully continue to think she was the best thing ever but not in a creepy way. We agreed that this was the best path to take and quietly said goodnight after she declined my offer to walk her to her car.

The next day I wrote this about her:

I met the Slackmistress last night. I’m not sure that I can describe her in a way that does her justice, because she’s just delightful. For a while I have read her site and been aware of her through the internet but that doesn’t come close to painting the picture. Imagine for a second that you’re a kid again and it’s a holiday. In the morning you see a big present with your name on it but you can’t open it until it gets dark so you wait all day and wonder what it could be. Well if when you open the present it’s everything you wanted and more, your present would be the Slackmistress.

We continued to talk beyond that Election Day, usually over instant messenger. She was not aware of the fact that I would put on a fancy shirt and usually a jacket when we did this. Dressing up to chat was a secret I found easier to keep  than the secret that I wanted to see her again.  Eventually we did see each other again for another non date and then another after that. In a span of a few weeks it became apparent that there was something happening that we both wanted to be a part of. We couldn’t explain it, but we knew it was good so six months later we got married. I still don’t understand what exactly happened in the weeks after Election Day 2006,  I just know that I’m happy for all of it.  I’ll vote for that every time.

Nina, Daisy and me in our hobo chic backyard. Photo copyright Lisa Jane Persky. lisajaneperskyphoto.com.



Filed under marriage, slackmistress

11 responses to “I’ll Cast My Ballot For The Good Life

  1. Aw, the romantic in me thinks that is about the sweetest thing ever.

  2. I just teared up reading this.

  3. David

    You are a “grade A” good guy.

  4. That’s 57 kinds of awesome right there…


  5. aliastaken

    I can’t believe how fucking long ago that seems now!

  6. vintagecaveman

    fuckpants! (just bringing back a forgotten tradition)

  7. kim

    You dressed up to IM. I fucking love that.

  8. Beautiful meet cute story! And you lived happily ever after.

  9. chlamygirl

    so glad you know what you are voting for. not sure if you remember me, but i have resurfaced in Switzerland. only just now come back to reality and look forward to filling in the gap and keeping up.

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