Comments on: The Angry Stage http://betheboy.com/2009/11/19/the-angry-stage/ Fri, 03 Feb 2012 09:08:06 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: TheOtherWill http://betheboy.com/2009/11/19/the-angry-stage/#comment-7997 Fri, 20 Nov 2009 15:53:31 +0000 http://betheboy.com/?p=4321#comment-7997 I hate to say it but I never really 100% got past the Angry Stage when my Mom passed.

All you can hope for is to be a Man they would be proud of and try to carry the torch when you have Chilluns of your own.

]]> By: Cousin of the boy http://betheboy.com/2009/11/19/the-angry-stage/#comment-7994 Fri, 20 Nov 2009 13:29:31 +0000 http://betheboy.com/?p=4321#comment-7994 The anger stage is always a bitch when my brother died I was so angry that it took me & him so long to get it right ( you know how our relationship was) and then he was taken from us. Anger is good, whether you realize it or not just be careful how you let it out, and remember we’re all here for you when you need us!!

Love you Cousin

]]> By: Michelle http://betheboy.com/2009/11/19/the-angry-stage/#comment-7988 Fri, 20 Nov 2009 01:57:04 +0000 http://betheboy.com/?p=4321#comment-7988 And when you adopt one from a shelter, he’ll do anything for you because he’s so grateful.

]]> By: betheboy http://betheboy.com/2009/11/19/the-angry-stage/#comment-7984 Thu, 19 Nov 2009 22:50:26 +0000 http://betheboy.com/?p=4321#comment-7984 I know it might take a while. I hope that my sharing is helping others a little bit.

]]> By: betheboy http://betheboy.com/2009/11/19/the-angry-stage/#comment-7983 Thu, 19 Nov 2009 22:47:27 +0000 http://betheboy.com/?p=4321#comment-7983 Thank you Rich, I’m sorry that you had to experience this but your perspective on this is greatly appreciated.

]]> By: theletterkae http://betheboy.com/2009/11/19/the-angry-stage/#comment-7981 Thu, 19 Nov 2009 21:55:32 +0000 http://betheboy.com/?p=4321#comment-7981 I was angry at the entire world when Chris and Joey passed away last year and got really angry at anyone who didn’t understand why I was angry. That’s a lot of anger, but fortunately no one was hurt.

]]> By: Colleen http://betheboy.com/2009/11/19/the-angry-stage/#comment-7980 Thu, 19 Nov 2009 21:41:57 +0000 http://betheboy.com/?p=4321#comment-7980 I’m so glad you’re dealing with all of this yuckiness. I pushed my emotions away for a while after my dad died (May 2002) We all have our processes and mine was pretty slow – I’ve come to accept that. But being open enough to really experience this stuff and SHARE it is sort of beautiful.

My thoughts are with you.

]]> By: Rich http://betheboy.com/2009/11/19/the-angry-stage/#comment-7979 Thu, 19 Nov 2009 21:14:44 +0000 http://betheboy.com/?p=4321#comment-7979 The angry stage can be a bitch:

My father died Thanksgiving day 24 years ago, and the night before, after exams and a 6-hour car ride, I was too tired to go see him.

I couldn’t let go of that for a long, long time.

Sorry to say, it hurts and then it doesn’t; it hurts and then it doesn’t.

I will be worried if I don’t get angry and it doesn’t hurt…

]]> By: kim http://betheboy.com/2009/11/19/the-angry-stage/#comment-7978 Thu, 19 Nov 2009 21:10:28 +0000 http://betheboy.com/?p=4321#comment-7978 I agree with slackmisstress. I will also mention that there ARE such things as Dad shelters, you didn’t just make it up. They’re called retirement communities or long term care facilities. They have dads waiting to be adopted. That’s where I got my last 2 grandpas.

]]> By: betheboy http://betheboy.com/2009/11/19/the-angry-stage/#comment-7977 Thu, 19 Nov 2009 20:19:50 +0000 http://betheboy.com/?p=4321#comment-7977 It should be noted that the snacks and chocolate milk stash was actually snacks and chocolate milk.

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