Comments on: The Lesson of July 4, 1997 http://betheboy.com/2009/07/01/the-lesson-of-july-4-1997/ Tue, 15 May 2012 04:48:28 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: billy joel http://betheboy.com/2009/07/01/the-lesson-of-july-4-1997/#comment-6167 Sat, 04 Jul 2009 03:58:26 +0000 http://betheboy.com/?p=3832#comment-6167 Clearly, she objected to a “blow job”‘s being transacted between the two of you.

]]> By: MacViolinist http://betheboy.com/2009/07/01/the-lesson-of-july-4-1997/#comment-6160 Fri, 03 Jul 2009 19:22:32 +0000 http://betheboy.com/?p=3832#comment-6160 My thoughts about these things is to imagine what I would feel like in the reverse situation. If I walked in on my girlfriend blow-drying another girl’s hair, I would think that was completely hot.

Therefore she should think of me as hot whenever I pick up a blow-drying-machine-ish-thing. Whatever you call them.

]]> By: Lisa http://betheboy.com/2009/07/01/the-lesson-of-july-4-1997/#comment-6110 Thu, 02 Jul 2009 17:13:20 +0000 http://betheboy.com/?p=3832#comment-6110 The way I see this scenario being OK is if the girl was incapicitated such that she couldn’t move her ams and thus needed help. Then you would be the nice guy.

]]> By: Green http://betheboy.com/2009/07/01/the-lesson-of-july-4-1997/#comment-6109 Thu, 02 Jul 2009 17:02:38 +0000 http://betheboy.com/?p=3832#comment-6109 It’s suspect and would lead a girlfriend whose boyfriend did such a thing to at least wonder if she should start calling all the numbers on his black Motorola pager.

]]> By: Jodi http://betheboy.com/2009/07/01/the-lesson-of-july-4-1997/#comment-6107 Thu, 02 Jul 2009 16:50:01 +0000 http://betheboy.com/?p=3832#comment-6107 I’m not sure why, but if I saw my boyfriend drying some broad’s hair, my stomach would flip a few times. And my wig would follow. I’d flip my wig, is what I’m saying.

]]> By: Rich http://betheboy.com/2009/07/01/the-lesson-of-july-4-1997/#comment-6106 Thu, 02 Jul 2009 16:30:01 +0000 http://betheboy.com/?p=3832#comment-6106 It’s a foot massage thing; ref. Pulp Fiction .

]]> By: NovySan http://betheboy.com/2009/07/01/the-lesson-of-july-4-1997/#comment-6100 Wed, 01 Jul 2009 23:07:36 +0000 http://betheboy.com/?p=3832#comment-6100 Social grooming is an intimate act. It forges bonds. That’s why primates do it. But group bonding isn’t sexual or couple bonding. What betheboy and wet girl (a new crime fighting team to be sure) felt was merely social bonding was interpreted by the gf at the time to be sexual bonding because her threshold and experiences were different. Neither in this case were “wrong.” There were merely differing definitions or tolerances and probably no prior case to have said differences discussed.

]]> By: Dan Wilson http://betheboy.com/2009/07/01/the-lesson-of-july-4-1997/#comment-6099 Wed, 01 Jul 2009 22:10:50 +0000 http://betheboy.com/?p=3832#comment-6099 Taboo seems a bit much (unless the “hairdryer” was you blowing on her), but the situation does seem a bit odd. I’ve never been called upon to blow-dry anyone’s hair before.

But maybe that just makes me less of a lothario than you, you sly dog.

]]> By: discotrash http://betheboy.com/2009/07/01/the-lesson-of-july-4-1997/#comment-6098 Wed, 01 Jul 2009 22:08:07 +0000 http://betheboy.com/?p=3832#comment-6098 i honestly do not have any idea how i would react to that. i mean id probably dry my own hair were i the wet girl. i cant imagine my boyfriend even holding a hair dryer tho

]]> By: the slackmistress http://betheboy.com/2009/07/01/the-lesson-of-july-4-1997/#comment-6097 Wed, 01 Jul 2009 22:07:26 +0000 http://betheboy.com/?p=3832#comment-6097 The only way I can see this working is that if she’s too dumb to come in from the rain, she’s too dumb to work a hairdryer?

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